
we had put a moratorium on even talking about making babies for the first year after our October wedding, and when we did end up talking in August of last year — you didn’t think she’d make it all 12 months, did you? — we decided we’d start trying in the New Year.
sure enough, we were pregnant by February. and everything is going swimmingly … no morning sickness for the lady sparkler, our little sparklet looks great, and is already over-achieving.
needless to say, a lot’s happened in the last fifteen weeks … and while it looks like i gave up blogging, they’ve just been going into the queue until the can’t-talk-about-it-for-the-first-trimester period was over.
to catch you up, here is the pregnancy so far:
- well, here we go — we weren’t even sure t.l.s. was pregnant, and i already screwed up. and expect to screw up over and over again.
- yup, we’re pregnant — and yes, we are going to find out the gender, and yes, we are going to pick a boring, anglo-friendly name.
- ballerina — and no, chances are baby sparklet won’t grow up to be a classically trained russian ballerina, if here genes have anything to do with it.
- obama boom — turns out we aren’t the only lefties that are pregnant, and (like everything else) it’s all obama’s fault.
- there and back again — we found a hospital … five miles, twelve stoplights, three stop signs, one traffic circle, and 200 churches later.
- the longest twelve weeks — i realized early on that i had the potential do a lot of damage in the twelve weeks where i was supposed to avoid talking about the pregnancy.
- provisioning for two — the nine month shopping spree has officially begun. our only hope is that it all stays this cheap.
- pregnant passover — went to a passover seder, where we were just about the only people who weren’t pregnant … sortof.
- nesting — ever the planners, we’ve assembled a very healthy list of to-dos before baby sparklet arrives, and are starting to check them off.
- ultrasound — baby sparklet, looks great, sounds great, and is already over achieving … and we’ve got proof.
![[Hotel Caron de Beaumarchais?, Paris, France.]](https://theparkerfamily.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/3511333801_0cf3be2371.jpg)
![[Rue de Rivoli, Paris, France.]](https://theparkerfamily.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/3511332723_98e7f3f397.jpg)
![[Notre Dame, Paris, France.]](https://theparkerfamily.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/3512141470_9cb63b813f.jpg)
![[Notre Dame, Paris, France.]](https://theparkerfamily.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/3511330575_4b3f015e6e.jpg)
![[Avenue de Champs-Elysees, Paris, France.]](https://theparkerfamily.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/3512140504_72c7782f4f.jpg)
![[Place de la Concorde, Paris, France.]](https://theparkerfamily.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/3512138910_ddb2c14fbb.jpg)
![[Jardin du Luxembourg, Paris, France.]](https://theparkerfamily.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/3512135818_9594fa0f8d.jpg)
![[Eiffel Tower, Paris, France.]](https://theparkerfamily.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/3512097262_a9f82d028a.jpg)
![[Metro, Paris, France.]](https://theparkerfamily.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/3512078618_e4f262d7be.jpg)
![[Venus di Milo, The Louvre, Paris, France.]](https://theparkerfamily.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/3512090166_807633164e.jpg)
![[The Louvre, Paris, France.]](https://theparkerfamily.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/3512088378_f5095ba6e5.jpg)
And i have to say, i was partially right. Paris is an ugly, ugly city during the day — there seems to be no sanitation in the traditional sense, the people on the sidewalks aren’t terribly nice, and it was painfully obvious that I just wasn’t in Kansas anymore Toto.
But Paris at night, is just stunning.
I have a feeling we’ll be back — we didn’t get to see even half the things on our list, but when we do come i think we’re going to do another long weekend and not even going to try adapt to the time change.
We’ll just get up at noon, and stay awake until 2am, and do Paris the way that God intended — at night.